Grace to you!
A lady met a new friend. The first impression was striking. Before long, a relationship had started to develop. It appeared both wanted a life-long commitment. A few dinners together seemed to reinforce their first impression.
As some people do, they started to share their favorite pictures – favorite places they had been to, their homes, their family portraits, etc.
The man's house looked very beautiful, and was located in a nice neighborhood. The lawn well manicured and the lady couldn't wait to pay her friend a visit. She couldn’t stop from dreaming of a wonderful family with kids in a beautiful home, well put together. The invitation to visit was gladly welcomed.
When she stepped into the home, she couldn't believe what she saw. It was in a mess – filthy, stinking and cluttered with junky stuff, in addition to crumbling ceilings. The bathrooms, probably made of white Italian tiles, had accumulated so much dirt that they wore the look of brown dirt slabs of the Stone Age. It was a disaster.
What was shocking to her was the disparity between appearance and reality; between a man whose shoes were well polished, the shirts and pants well ironed, a home well put together from the outside, but the inside was like a junkyard. It was like the metaphor of the whitewashed tomb which Jesus used a number of times in Scripture to describe hypocrisy.
The above picture is a fair depiction of hypocrisy. Ever wonder why Jesus never spared condemning hypocrisy?
Of all conversations in the bible, Jesus’ has some graciousness to it. Jesus seems to have a soft spot for all sinners and all who sincerely try to seek help. He doesn’t seem to care so much about people’s past as he cares about how to lead them to a better future. But when it comes to hypocrisy, he seems to throw politeness to the backyard. He gave the hypocrites straight talk.
For instance, in Matthew 23, Jesus has a litany of criticisms against the Scribes and the Pharisees for their hypocrisy. He condemned them for following rigorous rites while ignoring the weightier things of God's law – judgment, mercy and fidelity (Matthew 23:24). He condemned them for cleaning the outside cup, that is, appearing very holy from the outside, whereas on the inside they were “full of plunder and self indulgence” (Matthew 23:25).
Let’s be clear about this. All are sinners, but not every sinner is a hypocrite. Sometimes, one may not be certain where the lines are drawn. Suppose you commit the same sins over and over again, and yet confess them again and again, aren’t you a hypocrite? Some may argue.
I don't think so. The evil of hypocrisy isn't because we sin; it is because we claim we don't sin, but willfully sin and deliberately engaged in a cover-up or project the false persona of a “holier-than-thou” triumphalism.
The difference between a hypocrite and a sinner is that the sinner knows his or her weaknesses and works hard, cooperating with the grace of God, to fight on so as to overcome them. The hypocrite, on the other hand, believes that inner transformation isn't necessary, provided people see us as good or as saints.
While the sinner looks inward for inner conversion, hypocrites look outward for people’s praise and commendation, whereas inwardly they do the opposite of what they criticize or what they claim to hate. Hypocrites set high standards for others but apply a different scale for themselves.
I would rather be a sinner asking for mercy than a hypocrite enthroned on the platform of pretentious glory. Such glory doesn't last.
The hypocrite could also be redeemed. The route to redemption is the way so spoken by the Book of Psalms; “A humble contrite heart, the Lord does not reject” (Psalm 51:17).
The person who is so loved by God is the person who is not ashamed to say, “I am a sinner,” “I am sorry,” “I am weak.” “I need the Redeemer because there is something to be redeemed.”
May you pray with me: Jesus meek and humble of heart, make my heart like yours. Amen
God love you. God bless you.
Fr. Maurice Emelu
Fr. Maurice Emelu, Ph.D.
Father Maurice provides a daily blog of reflections based on the bible readings of the day from the Catholic liturgical calendar. You will find these reflections helpful for your spiritual growth, inspiration and developing your own thoughts. It may also be helpful for ministers in preparing their sermons for liturgical celebrations.